The End Is Near.

Now that you have received your big, you are very close to being done with your new member process. However, for the next few weeks your new member process is going to be very boring. There is always a lull between big/little and initiation because now that you have your big you just want to be an intimated sister. You should take this time however to start to get to know everyone a lot better. Seeing as you will be an initiated sister in a few weeks, it is time to really start to get to know those girls that are 3 years older than you. Not only should you get to know your older sisters, start leaning on the girls who are going through this process with you. All the nerves that you will be feeling in the next few weeks, they will be as well. Start crafting with them. Do things to get to know them better. Not only should you be getting to know people better, but you should also start to learn the information about your sorority. Know your founders and everything else there is to know. Good luck, and keep your eye on the prize.

You Are My What?

Big/Little reveal day is finally here. After a week of being spoiled by the most precious big you finally get to find out who she is. You are a mix between excitement and nervousness. What happens after your big is finally revealed to you. I am not going to lie to you, sometimes its a bit awkward.

Even if you really wanted a girl to be your big theres always an adjustment period. Don't let this period discourage you from the amazing relationship you will have with this girl. I really can't tell you why some times there is this adjustment period, but it happens. I will also bet that you aren't the only one in your new member class having this problem. Calm down and let it ride out. She loves you as much as you love her, but things take time. Don't force it.